The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. The Sun in 11th house synastry overlay creates an atmosphere of friendship between you. Ill blink and its 1am. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. Orange. Only because I feel his Mars in my subconscious,yelling at me to do better and not understanding that I dont respond well to that. Here are the examples i want to share with you. The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. No he is the Venus in Cancer. I still dream about them and I wonder if I bother them in their dreams toolol, I have had a short lived adventure with a man back in 2013. I have known that this house related to karmic connection. I believe it caused a lot of confusing both for him n I. It's like they can talk about everythng and anything and often don't even realize it. He is not letting me go, he comes into my dreams, only to message me next day.The whole story is like a novel really, with me running after him through half of the world, and yet he never asked anything more of me than comfort. It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 I love him, he opens me up to questions I would never put a name to but a part of me just wants to run away where he cant find me. In other words he wanted us to remain in a hidden while he is married and has political career. Im going through a bunch of Uranus and Pluto square transits right now and I have a very strong feeling this will not survive. He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. He has sun conjunct saturn and he also has it with me in synastry as well as my daughter. Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. It's true that when someone touches our soul in deep connection, they could teach us a lesson. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. I felt I was led to believe they cared for me, and while showering me with attention, long distance no less, never told me they had feelings for someone else they were trying to avoid. For someone who may be married to a 12th Houser and are tanking under their emotional and spiritual holds, just try to find ways to LEAVE them, leave the house you share with them, and move far away. He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! Do you mind posting a synastry? Sometimes in teh beginng this house can be overwhelming for some becasue it's like you can see into each others soul. I can feel him there within me and he seems to be aware of things that I dont want him to be eg. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. I didnt want to talk about it untill he would be back home. We are obsessed with eachother. The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). However, I still cannot get him out of my headlike there is no better man out there. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. What's weird to me is that I can't decide if he's intentionally obscuring himself or if it is unintentional based on the nature of his personality. In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. Despite their great physical attraction towards each other, the Venus person often feels saturated with mystery and attraction of the 8th house. I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. This is a very private house, and it holds all of our self conscious fears, most of the time we don't like this house activated especially if this is a person that will use this against us.If the Mars person is selfish and self-serving, he or she may use their knowledge of your bad habits, blind spots and personality weaknesses to manipulate or hurt you. I know I can read him more accurately than anyone else in his life and it scares him sometimes. From all levels! I am so swamped with feelings for him all the time, am pretty much obsessed, really, but there are no real connections between us except for in the air. With the negative aspect, the "Plutonian" personality can show jealousy and possessive tendencies toward the "Venusian" one, trying . I have not experienced personal planets in particular Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars as being all that great placed inside the 12th house. I also faced this same situation from my present crush whom he married with the woman same as my first ex BF criteria. Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. Friendship Argh Making me suck because I still have high hopes . because it hurts to know this about yourself, or just accept it. My boyfriends cancer venus is in my 12th house. Yet and still I have been in love with him for going on over 2 years. The descriptions of 12th house Venus in synastry always ring true for me, but I'm always the house person, so it totally sucks being so affected by someone who hides their feelings. HI, ELSA!! I would also like to know more about 12th house synastry, as I have my venus, mars and jupiter in someone's 12th house (he has no planets in there). The following is important: Is this a day chart or a night chart (was the sun up or down when the person was born). He always wants to make sure im not hungry and that i have money on me. Men take longer to grow up emotionally. We work well together and it is always professional. I find myself questioning him all the time, whether or not I believe him or believe what he says. As for this guy, hes telling you all you need to know. Her Venus is in my 12th house. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too. I don't mind though. Venus in 12th House Synastry Overlay If your Venus is in your partner's 12th house of a synastry overlay, you find yourself deeply moved in strange ways by the house person. Pretty much text book situation. Sorry, Mr. Gemini . The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. It's very common to do with placements in this house. i also met someone else in between all this somewhere who also had venus in my 12th who i had a lot of weird occurences with. I also have a stellium of 5 planets in my 8th house so I tend to be highly intuitive already. Such a mystical house - offers so much yet sometime so little. Someone help Ive done so much research on this but I was with this guy for like a year and then he ghosted me, disappeared deleted all social media, but I still dream about him and think about him frequently and its been 3 years. This would extend to all aspects of life from music to clothes to cars to home furnishings. My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. I feel like I know this person really well but maybe this relationship is build on misunderstandings and confusion? This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! NO THANKS!!! Gah! Are you afraid to admit your feelings? Venus person and House 1 person feel a. Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. Maybe he bonds with us well because the three if us have gemini suns. My ex and I had our suns in each others 12th. I've been rather busy these days but am always happy to answer questions:) The 12th house is about as mysterious and the afterlife! But I have to work with him and Im afraid he can realize and maybe use this against me. This happens for me with my Neptune in the 1st house I can take in people's feelings, illness or a array of different things that pass through me temporarily. Well you can imagine how the proposition to be his off-time mistress set with my Midhaven in Aries. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. I think we are a bit obsessive about each other although he seemed to be feeling it the worst. Pisces is the sign without boundaries. I have noticed this can happen from a distance when we have Neptune 12th house synastry as well. Hi, Heather. My own Dad was a Sun/Gemini native who made TWIN SIGN siblings (he was a classic Gemini man with multiple marriages and households, lol!) The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. SPOOKY!! Most often, this includes banking, art and value-related activities. They may support you financially. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. And it is hard and painful for a physical person like me. Either come correct or go away. Tabitha has Venus in 12th House Pisces. I've never felt such a connection before, the passion too. If neither one has any issues like these then the relationship does not need to take on such a heavy role and can then be about many of the positive aspects of this house. Once around, up and down was TOO much for that villian! So we became " friends" . Posts: 1873. You're in love with the "idea" of each other, if that makes any sense. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. Forum Venus in 8th house synastry Posts: 8 scorpiounique Topic starter March 7, 2022 9:36 am (@scorpiounique) Active Member Joined: 6 years ago His Pisces Venus falls into my Pisces 8th house. My daughter and i also have gemini mercury and my baby girl also has venus in gemini. game vault 999 login; extreme double anal; asian school girl porn; karma x nagisa story; jamf enable screen sharing; myq device is currently not in provisioning mode I feel like we are very secretive together though like we are very codependent on one another and thats really it ..so far .. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. It might be like having an itch you cant scratch. The Sun person sees in the 11th house person someone, who they can spend pleasant time with. To me and my daughter since we both dont have our dads. I still dont know WHY that occurred . Some dont want to, ever. The element of secrecy makes their relationship intense and glamorous. why am I'm alone. I can only state that my 12th Houser ended up pretty much devastating me perhaps it was because of his Sun/Gemini in my 12th House and my Vwnus/Sag in his 12th House. Okay, so you're saying (as the Venus person in other people's 12th house in the past) that Aqua Venus people will make their affections quite obvious to the 12th house person? It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. I cared abt him so much but I read that the mars person is the antagonist. Our fake fears you know, the what if's? I can relate to most that has been said: Psychic, Fated, Spiritual, highly-accepting, Secretive & perhaps in ways obsessional/unrequited. When someone's planet (s) fall in your twelfth house, you might feel somewhat unsettled, and you might find that your partner finds you somewhat elusive as well. I feel like he's not being completely honest with me and himself about how he feels about me. THAT is a swift ender for my 3-placement Leo (read: THE QUEEN) who became TOTALLY OFFENDED by his antics. I am an independent person and this is killing me emotionally, physically and psychologically! I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. I resonate with the guy you wrote about in your article. Sent 3-5 times a week. So, it's painful when such love is not returned, like part of me is out there without a chance of getting it back.Lilly, Oh my.what a 12th house story:) this house leaves a deep imprint and we are often left with longings for what could have been. I understand this. We are from different countries. I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? Please also note that having Venus in the 12th means very little without a lot of context. The water faucet with no shut off valve, lol. We have opposite rising signs. Im so obsessed with him. This has been a dormant thread for some time but I couldn't help but post in my 2-bits on a relationship with 12th Venus. I knew he got around a lot so I was always afraid of letting him in but Im afraid I caused all the distance. In this relationship, you tend to agree to a no-obligation arrangement from the start. You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real? In a way you don't care for.Look at your Sun & Saturn since that represents the father as well, with the way you feel look for afflictions. Thinking this would help. Venus Conjunct Pluto Synastry. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. i did not have any dreams of them. Wowza:) Mars conjunct Mars and Sun conjunct sun? You can hide things from eachother and it can make you feel vulnerable or weary, so it's not a house for everyone. He scares me sometimes because he has a violent tendency and I think he activated my 12th house because all of a sudden Im afraid to be with him for the rest of my life even though I know we were made for each other. Everything has a timing. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). It's like the cuddling is saved for when the other really needs it. We face the same situation when someone touch our 12th house. Me and my fianc has this. More so after 15 years. All information I have is the planet can see through the house person like cristal. The relationship functions mostly on an unconscious level and there is often much misunderstood or misinterpreted if you arent very clear in your speaking with each other. Those this mean that he's thinking about me a lot too? I find myself wondering if it's happening because maybe I am picking up on him obsessing about it. I can feel him, seeing many good things in him that he never aware. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. Hes very affectionate and cuddly. The house person will feel good with the Venus person and they will share a psychic connection that is quite powerful. didnt dream of them either. 12th house is about what you cant grab, so it applies to his affection as you perceive it. If his actions speak (this would be something your pick up on intuitively) that he loves you, but his words dont. As a matter of fact it's very difficult to word. Should I run now?? This is a really good match because it brings together romantic partners with similar ideas about how to approach life. Ive cut our contact channels. i have a guy who i'm so into him , he have his sun, venus, mercury and jupiter in gemini on my 12th house. Sometimes the experience in this house is painful other times it's purely magical. I dont know despite how he treats me I just always want to help him and at the time I thought if needing space was what would help him fine but I can never seem to tell him that. Even when on partner likes the other one partner would not want to be seen with the other person for whatever reasons as in maybe wanting to keep their option open; definitely a "behind the scenes" situation. I no longer see our reflection of each other I only see himself popping up in my mind here and there, but he now seems dark, untrustworthy, and truly not worth my time. Can you tell me whats really going on here? Horoscope, dating, astrology, forecast, relationships | 12andus I loved his soul. Long time away for me. Im all thumbs up, though, for those who do not nave the bad effects of a 12th House synastry. Every time I talk to him about something, I feel loved and at peace. The 12th house rules things. When Im with him its like everything else in the world just melts away. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. To the point it's hard to explain to others especially because we're no longer together. I dont feel he doesnt love me enough. However,from reading the comments here, it seems that the planet person can be just as affected as the house person. Is your 12th house tenanted then? He might love you but in his own way. Not too hard for me to figure out, even though for years I was dodging it. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! I would love to here anyone's feedback. He have deep psychic connection upon me, where he called me at a right time. Most sources will tell you that the twelfth house overlay is not good for relationships. But I ve never felt what I have felt for this other guy..and still sometimes feel. SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES. Helo There, Last year I was @ a party, with my friends. I couldn't forget him until now. The 12th house is mysterious, magical, elusive, highlypsychic, spiritual, and the most interesting thing about it in synastry is that relationships with planets here tend to function mostly on a unconscious level, and even a whole other world entirely. If it's a night chart, Venus is more powerful and the strongest benefic in the chart. You got bit BAD by the oh-so charismatic, elusive 12th Houser! I dream of him a lot. Sign up for my free newsletter offering astrology forecasts, tips and tricks! So the conversations might be heavy and deep, or they are at least exposing of one whether good or bad. Lol. Hes not cold at all. At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. This is because there are endless ways these things can play. Knowflake. Hi, Name Again. I know it sounds crazy. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. Being with your spouse causes you to become more reflective and thoughtful. I feel like a complete different being since I met him. Its unbelievably painful. Thanks Zahara, what you say makes sense. We also share moon Conj Mars, moon and Pluto Conj & trine. His sun falls in my 8th and his moon in my 12th where my sun is. Sigh.. And he keeps saying that he feels like he knows me for 100 years, so familiar, and that he just knows I would understand him no metter what. It lasted for a year and we functioned well in the one-on-one, but had trouble integrating it with our lives. Thank you for any input/comments. My Jupiter falls into this man, I no longer with but had a deep connection. And I discovered that I had a stellium of Sun, mars, Mercury and venus in his twelfth house, while his planets sun, moon, venus, mars, jupiter, neptune where all in my seventh house.His AC opposite's my venus.Our Sun Mutually Aspects Pluto aswell as Moon Mutually Aspects Mars.