Well, I have been thinking about the situation. I generally cannot stand them, and their tendency to be arogant and conceited towards anyone who doesnt think the way they do does come across as downright abusive to me. As such, I would be careful and watchful. They play out to have a certain pattern to the relationship. Moon oppose Pluto and Moon square Pluto could tend to be dark because they are powerful and not with a harmonious flow. Same natal chart of a man who is 41-42 years old. I wonder what do you think it would happen when nessus conjuncts nessus in synastry. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. I have looked at them unto themselves but everything matters so I will start to incorporate signs and houses. thank you again for being so welcoming, Thank you so much, Sovietlana! Thank you for your words. As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. I was wondering.. Are Sun/Mars (double whammy) and Venus/Mars (double whammy) dark aspects in synastry? You can gather the tone of the marriage based on the planets involved and the sign that theyre in. Great questions. Their chemistry is obvious even after all these years but she did recently reveal that some light BDSM play is involved. That is my commitment to my readers. Where did you get these theories from? I am so intrigued!!! You both feel admiration for each other. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. I am worried about being the abuser here. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. 8. I am sorry. I dont know too much about asteroids and wonder if the intense attraction I am feeling will fizzle as quickly as it came about or if it lasting. His dejanira is in opposition to his vertex. My Sun and Mercury sandwich this conjunction by four and three degrees. The chart shows the TRUTH. Wow. In our synastry chart we have moon trine pluto and mars square pluto. I could not agree more with this. The chart allows one to see oneself. I was shocked to see it in this couples charts. I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. You may be fated to marry. The Nessus is usually the abuser but in this case, it was the son. Who would bring who abuse? Would you liken moon/pluto dynamics to an 8th house moon overlay? I found your site a short time ago and learned a lot, very descriptive in the analysis, I love it! Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. His dejanira is conjunct with my sun. My sun and deja are on his nn. Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. Another asteroid that is dark is Dejanira. Can this aspect be calmed down by a Mars conjunct Saturn contact? I never heard of these asteroids, especially being linked to abusers and victims. Hi Amiann Ceres person appreciates this, as they typically focus more on caregiving than on their own inner desires. This will be HOT. I seem to be one of the rare people doing it lol. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. There is always a risk with Eros when he falls on a personal planet of point, and meeting Lilith is the greatest of them. I have my nessus conjunct with my true node. I do keep finding myself attracted to people who seem to have a strong primal power under the surface, and I dont really feel connected to Pluto myself (I dont know if thats on purpose or simply because its otherwise weakly aspected in my chart). This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . Do you have their synastry you could post on my Forum? If you do this, Astrology will serve its purpose, which is to warn and alert people to possible problems and even dangers. Yet despite this fearsome reputation she was often dismissed as " a minor Babylonian wind deity " or similar. That is why it is so powerful. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. His moon also conjunct my IC, orb 1. This is not dark sexual, per se. With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. lol. Does the man walk up to you and tell you that he wants to abuse you because you seem like the perfect victim? Would appreciate some insight!! It makes me feel very crazy. What does Nessus and Dejanira mean when conjuncting each other? Maybe also Mars/Uranus? Obviously the hard ones, like by a square or an opposition, adding to the (possibly) destructive passion! I have some extreme aspects and I shudder to think how they would be expressed had I not had saturn at the top of my chart who keeps things in check via a grand trine involving some big bad planets. Priapus is likewise called a "minor rustic God" or even "an oversexed gardening God." Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. I really have not looked at these aspects in signs, though. Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. People tell me the same thing they tell me with Nessus. What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. Your passions are overwhelming, spontaneous, and you develop your attractions without even thinking about it. This question would need me to see the whole chart because what I do is put it all together and come out with a practical answer. My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. I write the truth not to placate people but because the truth is the only thing that heals. Most Astrologers dont tell things straight like I do. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. 2) I just looked for the child asteroid and it is on 28 Capricorn, conjuct with my venus 1 Aquarius. Ami, hello. That can be justified through basic psychology, I think. It is a pleasure to be here. Can my Fortuna have some healing effect? The charts tell all. I am not asking you to do mine either. I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). Does the man walk up to you and tell you that he wants to abuse you because you seem like the perfect victim? (double-whammy..) If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. My nessus is separated from my true node by 7 in cncer and in exact opposition to my venus. My Fortuna conjuncts precisely his Dejanira and Moon. 2021 - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. I am prone to being attacked in this way. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. Would an eighth house overlay make these destructive or strengthen ? Fortuna Conjunct the Vertex. Thats weird. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. Not eros. Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? Your feelings are not fact. Yeah, the They may not be able to see what you are up and you could use this for your gain fits perfectly. This would be once in a lifetime kind of intense and tender. If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. The opposition would be the same but not as locked in or as intense. You can say you did it and you can help the next person who comes along. Thanks for your posts Ami. Thank you so much, Love. Am I right? She is deeply alluring and irresistible. Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. Lilith conjunct Ascendant . Please please do Nessus conjunct Lilith in synastry?? My venus is conjunct someone's eros right now. Nessus and Dejanira do most certainly not mean abuse. BUT my dejanira is conjunct with his sun by one degree and my dejanira is also in the same degree as my AC What does that mean? I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. Eros is also prominent in their synastry. "I want to welcome you to my website. The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. The fear can totally destroy someone over something that they read as if its fact. Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity. Romantic Conjunctions in the 12th House If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. The flip side is that when it ends( and it usually does) you could go to jail for homicide. First of all Lilith is for . I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. There is the potential to take things to another realm when the aspects are favorable. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. Will be keeping my wits about me. Do you know what these aspects could mean? Eros & Psyche in. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. I am curious about the dejanira/nessus aspects. I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! Or rather nessus and dejanira support negative aspects since these are asteroids. Yes, I was thinking about this. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. Would you say that a double whammy Nessus OPPOSITE Juno is something dangerous too ? Thank You so much for this info. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Sun Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. As long as we kept connecting the way we had been sexually, I was willing to "fight" for what I thought we had and felt I could withstand anything. Do you think the way it plays out ties into whatever our attitudes toward Eros/Lilith themes (erotic transformation, primal urges, etc) were to begin with? One other thing that might be helpful with this asteroid pairing, and one that I think is quite meaningful. The Nessus person brings abuse to the ASC/DSC person. 3. Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold. 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? I have this aspect with someone Im seeing. I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. Most karmic astrology synastry reports dont take Chiron into account nearly enough. His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. He may have little sympathy for her weakness. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. Talk about deep dark sexual desiresTremendous sexual need to control. Yes, these asteroids have to be in a very close conjunction with other planets ( or a very close square) to be dangerous. Thats not the truth. I'm so cappy Knowflake . Thats fatalistic and leaves the image that the entire rest of the charts and people themselves are completely victim to two asteroids that are being portrayed as always playing out when they really do not always do so. No worries. Maybe, maybe not. Thanks! Opposition AC / Moon and trigone mars and saturne. Could it be a past life meaning? It can ruin possible healthy relationships. Can it be dangerous amiann? We enter the month of February, with lust, love and passion. Saturn draws the couple together due to karma, but Juno and South Node aspects offer more of a choice. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. If you want to ask me a simpler question, I am game! Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. so, quick question, where do I post it? If the man is the Dejanira, he would be the victim. Positive aspects speak to a generally happy marriage, but there is still karma to be worked out now. She has never treated me as less than, and she is extremely giving. the Moons will make for best friends. I had a very intense, psychically damaging and life changing relationship with a man whose Eros was directly conjunct my Lilith, and also more loosely conjunct my Neptune & Descendant. His Nessus makes no major aspect to my planets, except a 3 orb trine to my Mercury and North Node, and Vertex..could this mean well step on each others toes when it comes to reaching our goals? This is not a dark aspect, either. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. Considering the sexual aspect of it all, though, I'm betting the pay off was satisfying at least, haha. Does that fit and I applaud your willingness to face yourself. . There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. . Please, keep me posted though but, yes, please, be careful, Love! He was considered irresistible. I have moon conjunct neptune and venus in 12th house. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 Making people fear being in relationships over tiny aspects that do not have an incredibly high chance of playing out is not healing to others. Hello, what a great article, thank you. Is this a synastry, Ariel? Your analysis is lovely. Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. 1) What would it mean when my nessus conjuncts his nessus? What about my nessus conjunct his descendant? My main point is reflection. Good afternoon, thank you for this article Eros: Synastry Aspects . About Nessus/BML, I would watch it. This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring . Currently you have JavaScript disabled. With asteroids, one must be an intrepid explorer because there is precious little PRACTICAL info out there. Not good, my Friend. I guess ill post mine and then our synastry chart. Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. I just found out my abusers Moon is 1 degree conjunct my Dejanira. What does that mean? Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. I ve met a man who have his mars = my moon (1) in taurus and square my uranus (2) in aquarius. The Moon person feels comforted by the Sun person's energy and the Sun person feels like they can be vulnerable with the Moon person. It is valued! You never want to leave your beloveds side until they put you in the grave. These are too many questions for text. Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. It took me a minute to think about the wounded bird types, but I think you might be right. It exposes our weaknesses and provides us a chance to deal with them constructively. However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. Deja conj ASC may make for victimization as you fo through life, I am not able to do more. There are no planets conjunct or square either Nessue or Dejanira in either chart, the only conjunction is her Dejanira to his Nessus. What I've read about Lilith makes it seem to me that she's sort of like the Feminine's Pluto with lots of primal sexual urges thrown in, so I'm sure she rooted herself comfortably into your already heavily Plutonic relationships. xx. This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. Does this mean anything? Eros-Psyche: Eros and Psyche are natural mates. My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. When Lilith and Mars team up in synastry, there's nothing they can't do. Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. I dont believe in past lives, Lo. Lets hope more info comes out about this connection.:). Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. Free Horoscopes charts, calculations Birth Natal Chart Online Calculator Ascendant, Rising Sign Calculator Astro Portrait: Sun, Moon, ASC Personal Daily Horoscope Transit Chart Calculator Secondary Progressions Solar Arc, Solar Return, Prognoses Synastry, Composite, Davison Chart Traditional Astrology Calculator Sidereal Astrology Calculator Draconic Astrology Calculator Various astrology . What about nessus exactly conjunct BML in synastry the man is nessus (9h), Wow Is there a super attraction that feels so strong that it will blow you off your feet? Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. Nessus is the abusers asteroid. Dejanira trines my Ascendant. I hope I can do this in my articles. I am one person with one persons experience, of course. However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. It is the passion of lovers and the pure, primal love of a mother for her baby. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. What do you think? One person is kind of riding the other one in this. It needs to be 3 degrees, tops, so no worries there! I dont want people to get the wrong idea and then get scared over a small aspect. Yes, that is a good way to put it. Please, keep giving your opinion. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. hmm well I dont really have his birth time lol so I just went by the general aspects, so I can see what he does to my moon and where his planets fall in my houses but not vice versa. I know this is an article for synastry, but Im a little worried about my natal chart after reading about Nessus and Dejanira. How does that play out? 4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles = very strong bond. For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. That would be my guess. Lilith desires sacred sex above all things. And What significance would you place on someones Juno conjunct my vertex, south node as well as very-widely conjunct my sun (same sign). What are your thoughts? 3 degrees is wide but this is one of the hardest aspects in the whole chart, so please be vigilant, as I know you will be! Uranus/Mars in synastry can be kinky. I dont really understand the aspect you are asking about. Even with a trine this 8th house effect enhances both the good and the bad ? Things dont come out until marriage, sometimes. The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can always be applied to past lives as well as the current life. for example a 1.46.. or 2? How do we honor Lilith in our lives? In these dark, sexual relationships, you feel the raw passion and soul mate connection like no other. Oh dear, I am soooooo freaked out!!!!!!! what would the double wammy of sun and pluto look like? Eros Conjunct the Midheaven: This synastry aspect will be quite powerful for both parties since it will impact the way that the world views them. Thank you, Lo and Welcome When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? Saturn conj Mars in Scorpio could produce a kinky kind of thing. The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. My ex has Scorpio Pluto conjunct my scorpio moon, and I have Sagittarius pluto conjunct his sagittarius moon. I read all these comments and yes they are interesting. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. vertex conjunct moon and ascendant in scorpio can make it dark too? Well, maybe, but dont most abusers have a history of childhood abuse themselves? How will these aspects play out? His makes two major squares to her inner planets. The puzzle pieces are coming together for me.. finally. As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. Crow Symbolism: Spiritual Meaning Of The Crow, 6 Effective Studying Spells For Exams, Class, & Enhanced Focus, Winter Solstice & Yule: Rituals, Traditions, And Ways To Celebrate.